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.With Mars in Cancer or Pisces, thecombativeness is modified.It may show as passive / aggressive behavior, or it may beturned inward, leading to illness.These people should always involve themselves incompetitive sports so as to absorb their combative energies and keep other areas freefrom it.If the Moon is on an angle, this Mars can be dangerous; violence may be done tothem or by them.Yet if they can learn to harness their energies, and to live withthemselves and others, much can be achieved with the seventh-house Mars, as theenergy, properly applied, is endless.These people are often lonely, and feel misunderstood by others.Something hashardened them to the outside world, diminishing their natural sensitivity to others.They feel misunderstood; but it is really they who misunderstand others andmisinterpret their motives.It is hard for others to break through this tough shell.Infact, it is impossible, until they are willing to come out from behind their defenses.They will often have a relationship with an athlete, someone athletic in nature, orwho enjoys sports as a pastime, possibly someone in the police or the military.Withbad aspects to Mars, they may have a relationship with someone violent, or someonewho has suffered from violence, or who has dangerous occupation or lifestyle.They are tough opponents, and do well in anything where fight is required.Althoughoppositions or conjunctions to the Moon or Saturn may make them fearful, once thefat is in the fire, watch out!Good aspects, particularly trines to planets in the eleventh house, will modify thedifficulties of his position, giving these people the power to control themselves anddiminishing the touchiness.However, the basic stress of opposition from theAscendant and square from the Midheaven to this most energetic and forceful ofplanets is hard to modify.(Bill Herbst)Mirrored awareness: Others may seek you out as an attractive object of desire.Youmight find yourself 'courted' or prasied, and you could develop high confidence andcharisma as a result.However, it can also seem that people are overly combativewith you, that they are often overly aggressive or sometimes downright disagreeablewith you.But look within yourself and you'll discover some of that same energy.Findout what it's about.Don't let it lurk beneath your awareness.Mirroring is alsopositive.The challenge is to discover your own natural sharpness through relating,and then to use it to cut away any obstacles to the fulfillment of your natural desires.Equal partnerships: Your partnerships tend to be energetic and focused with a clearsense of purpose.Although you are capable of sustaining long-term relationships, theemphasis is on the immediate crisis, the momentary confrontation, today's problemrather than yesterday's or tomorrow's.Equality is a struggle.You may feel that yourpartner is trying to conquer you, but you're just as likely to use the same strategy.Ineither direction, a win / lose battleground is really no partnership at all.Avoid bothsurrender and victory, for it is imperative that humiliation and revenge be kept out ofyour relationships.You are likely to be oversensitive to your partner's desires, sokeep the focus on your own male qualities.Assert yourself with the intention ofreaching rather than conquering your partner.Penetrate the partner's heart withyour sincere desire.Contracts, commitments: When you find a relationship you want, you immediatelycommit yourself to having it.It's not thought-out or chosen after consideredcontemplation.You jump right in, urgent, propelled by desire.The only commitmentyou know how to make is total - forever.What gives this the flavor of paradox,however, is the fact that Mars doesn't measure forever in terms of literal time.Rather, 'forever' means until the desire no longer exists.One pitfall involves seeingyour parnter as an object rather than as a person, a screen upon which you projectdesires [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]